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自私的藝術:快樂有理,自私無罪!別再讓「過度妥協」控制你的餘生,美國心理學權威給無私好人的50個自救箴言

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自私的藝術:快樂有理,自私無罪!別再讓「過度妥協」控制你的餘生,美國心理學權威給無私好人的50個自救箴言SOP 502 2 50 23 12 10 David Seabury Build Your Own Future(How to Worry Successfully)(Adventures in Self Discovery)

作者:大衛.西伯里 | 譯者:李祐寧

     
       原來,光有愛是不夠的……你有足夠的智慧與自私嗎?
  在家庭、職場、愛情與人際關係中,
  為什麼那些「自私的人」過得更幸福?
 
  ★ 英文版上市旋即空降《紐約時報》暢銷榜冠軍
  ★ 長銷半世紀的心理自助經典,拯救了一整個世代「低潮的你」
 
  心理學家大衛‧西伯里,在經手上千個諮商案例後發現,人們最常遇到的生活困境、感情糾葛、家庭紛爭、人際關係,乃至於日積月累的壓力影響身體健康……所有問題的源頭,往往指向那個被人們誤解的「無私」精神,以及邪惡的自私。
 
  於是,西伯里決定致力推廣「自私的藝術」──他堅信拒絕別人的邪惡自私、捍衛自我的「良性自私」,才是人們能獲得幸福快樂的關鍵因素。
 
  ● 社交困擾讓你心好累?日復一日有禮貌、做人情、做面子,消耗掉你太多的能量?
  ● 面對需索無度的家人,是否還要繼續「善盡義務」?
  ● 你符合婚內失戀SOP嗎?「如果你愛我、你應該為了我、應該要做到……」
  ● 最親密的人是控制狂,只能無限妥協下去嗎?可是,「他們只是為你好……」
  ● 為什麼對工作、所愛之人付出了所有精力,大家還是不滿足?
 
  本書要教你練習「高尚的自私」,當他人對於你的時間、精力,與情緒,提出不合理的要求時,我們該如何說「不」?讀通了,你就能釋放長久以來受壓抑的真實自我,獲得前所未有的自由與喜悅──重點是毫不內疚!
 
  「你的自私程度夠高嗎?」
  「你的自私是良性,還是惡性的呢?」
  本書將提出應對、反擊,以及自我療癒的處方簽,你的餘生將因此過得更滋潤!
 
  ◎經常被誤解的良性自私:
  ● 選擇自己的職業。
  ● 選擇自己的婚姻伴侶。
  ● 選擇自己想要結交的朋友。
  ● 選擇自己的信仰。
  ● 找到最適合自己的環境。
  ● 運用自己的時間。
  ● 表現出最平常的反應。
  ● 保護自己的隱私。
  ● 決定自己的責任義務。
  ● 衡量自己的標準。
  ● 自己決定是非對錯的標準。
  ● 拒絕一切不正直的妥協。
 
  ◎ 邪惡自私的例子:
  ● 一面高喊著「自我犧牲」,卻一面展現出占有欲。
  ● 永無止盡地談著「否定自我」。
  ● 總是和別人講著該怎樣做才是「對所有人都好」。
  ● 將別人的義務轉嫁到你身上。
  ● 企圖透過別人的生命而活出自己的意志。
  ● 索求的比給予的多。
 
  書中50個真實案例,描寫的都是你我日常生活中一定會遭遇的困境,看他們如何憑藉作者所指引的「自私2大原則」,掙脫多年來無解的枷鎖,重獲新生,獲得內心的平靜與喜悅。
 
  當頭棒喝!《自私的藝術》精選金句──
  ●自私的藝術,是懂得如何滿足自己的需求。
  ●不願妥協,與妥協太多,兩者之間你只能擇一前進。
  ●當我們以委屈求全的態度生活並行動時,挫折只會如影隨形。
  ●光有愛是不夠的。愛需要它的好夥伴:智慧。
  ●擁有勇氣—─在麻煩開始前,就拒之於門外。
  ●唯有發自內心的自由,才是自由。
  ●唯有懂得保護自我魅力與趣味的人,才能帶給伴侶快樂。
  ●真正的聰明人不會去否認生活的不易,而是承認自己的不安。
  ●我們本能上知道,自己擁有快樂的權利。既然如此,何不接受天性給你的建議?
  ●關於愛,有一個基本法則:「做你自己─—無論何時何地。」
 
本書特色
 
  2大神奇公式,拋開內疚,享受人生!
  永遠不要讓自我妥協+不要自我滿足,贏回自我的生活主導權。
 
  50個邁向「無恥生活」的成功案例
  如果你做一件事的目的,只是為了取悅對方,你就應該拒絕去做。
 
  23個思維練習 × 12種避免犯下的錯誤 × 10大處理問題的原則
  想要好好被愛,不再害怕被人討厭,心理學家教你這樣練習。


作者

大衛‧西伯里(David Seabury)
 
  美國心理學界權威,作家與講師。在紐約執業期間,著有豐富數量的心理自助作品,以溫暖精闢的文字發揮影響力,致力於讓更多人擁有幸福的生活。包括:《開創自我的未來》(Build Your Own Future)、《與焦慮共處》(How to Worry Successfully)、《自我探索的冒險》(Adventures in Self-Discovery)等。
 
譯者
 
李祐寧
 
  畢業於政治大學新聞系,旅居海外,目前從事專職翻譯工作。譯作包含《像數學家一樣思考》、《甜與權力》、《行為投資金律》、《自私的藝術》、《波克夏大學》、《金融投機史》、《華爾街孤狼巴魯克》、《異常流行幻象與群眾瘋狂》、《跳痛的愛》等。
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