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Dating Differently: A Guide to Reformed Dating

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Dating Differently: A Guide to Reformed DatingClick for a sample Were bombarded with antichristian messages everywhere in life, and from casual hookups to casual sex, our cultures messages on dating are no different. But Christians dont have to follow these norms. The Bible gives us a better way. Its a way of chastity and wisdom. A way that understands that marriagethe end goal of datingis for life. The person you marry will shape who you become spiritually. And that person will also be the

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We’re bombarded with antichristian messages everywhere in life, and from casual hookups to casual sex, our culture’s messages on dating are no different.

 

 

But Christians don’t have to follow these norms. The Bible gives us a better way.

 

 

It’s a way of chastity and wisdom. A way that understands that marriage—the end goal of dating—is for life. The person you marry will shape who you become spiritually. And that person will also be the father or mother to the children God is pleased to give you some day.

 

 

Pastorally and accessibly, Joshua Engelsma answers the practical questions of Reformed, Christian dating based on the truth that we must date differently—with marriage as the goal and scripture as the guide.

 

 

What others are saying about this book:

"A concise, accessible and biblically trustworthy source on this subject." –@reformedandreading

 

 

"Wonderful! Very thorough and yet short and to the point...so, not intimidating for young people to read! It's a gem...look forward to reading more of [the author's] books in the future." – a reader (parent)

 

 

"We didn't have to remind [our children]...to read it. They wanted to! And finished it in shocking time! Made for an enjoyable Sunday evening of discussion with our boys. And the questions made for a great starting point with that." – a reader (parent)

 

 

"This is a book full of practical advice on dating. Especially helpful are the suggestions to pray at the end of dates which would help maintain physical boundaries, and to not over share throughout the day so there is plenty to talk about on dates. Also the chapter focusing on single life is well written and encouraging." – a reader (parent)

 

 

"When I first opened the book I was amazed by how easy it was to read while understanding the concepts. The book also gave thoughtful insight on the topic of dating." – a reader (young person)

 

 

"It was a very well written book and displayed very well the concepts of dating." – a reader (young person)

 

 

Read reviews by Anna Huizinga (the Grandville Gleaner), Ella Baas (the Grandville Gleaner), @reformedandreading, Carlos Antonio Gosmo (Sojourners), Kristin Stiles (booksataglance.com), James Admiraal (The Outlook), Garry Eriks, Cory Griess (the Standard Bearer), Michelle Hofman (Young Calvinists), Jim Regnerus, Charles Terpstra (The Three R's Blog), Jon Van Dyk (Christian Renewal), Mrs. Ricky Pronk (The Messenger), and Sarah Vandergugten (Clarion).

 

 

Joshua Engelsma is a minister in the Protestant Reformed Churches of America. He lives in Doon, Iowa, with his wife, Courtney, and six children. He has served as pastor of Doon Protestant Reformed Church since 2014.

 

 

  • 160 pages
  • softcover
  • ISBN 978-1-944555-59-7
  • Release date: October 15, 2019

 

 

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